KAMPALA, Uganda – The tragic death of Martha Ahumuza Murari has prompted Ugandan socialite and philanthropist Judith Heard to reflect on her own life and offer advice to women on staying safe.
However, her message has sparked mixed reactions, with many accusing her of making the tragedy about herself.
In a heartfelt post on X, Heard expressed gratitude to God for saving her from what she described as a “worldly life” that could have led her down a dangerous path.
“I can’t stop thanking God for saving me from the worldly life and helping me quit everything that was leading me down the wrong path,” she wrote.
“Every day, I see more reasons why His grace and guidance have been my greatest protection. Life is fragile, and the world can be cruel—this is why I choose to walk in God’s light and encourage others to be mindful of the environments they put themselves in.”
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A Wake-Up Call for Women
Heard reflected on the circumstances surrounding Martha’s death, which is suspected to be linked to a brain aneurysm after her drink was allegedly spiked at Mezo Noir nightclub.
“This is a painful reminder of how quickly things can change,” she said, mourning the young woman who was full of promise but taken too soon.
She used the tragedy as an opportunity to caution women about personal safety, particularly in social settings:
- Never leave drinks unattended.
- Speak up if something seems suspicious.
- Support and protect one another.
“Ladies, let’s not just mourn her—let’s learn from this and do our best to protect one another. May her soul rest in peace,” she concluded.
Backlash and Criticism
While some praised Heard for her message, others criticized her for making Martha’s death about herself.
Many accused her of being an “attention whore” and using the tragedy to highlight her own transformation and moral superiority.
Comments on social media included:
- “Why is Judith Heard making this about her? This isn’t the time to preach about how holy you are.”
- “She’s acting like she’s the main character in someone else’s tragedy. This isn’t about you, Judith.”
- “Her message comes off as self-righteous and preachy. Not the time or place.”
Critics compared her tone to Walter White’s infamous line from Breaking Bad: “This whole thing, all of this, it’s all about me.”
walter white "this whole thing all of this, it's all about me" pic.twitter.com/ESSz9c5Qmf
— breaking bad reaction videos & clips (@brbareact) December 21, 2022
They argued that Heard’s focus on her own redemption and moral high ground detracted from the gravity of Martha’s death.
A Delicate Balance
Heard’s message, while well-intentioned, highlights the delicate balance between offering advice and appearing self-centered during moments of collective grief.
Her call for caution and safety resonated with some, but her emphasis on her own transformation and divine protection alienated others.
Related: Martha’s Father Speaks Out on Mezo Noir Poisoning Investigation
What’s Next?
As Martha Ahumuza is laid to rest in Mbarara tomorrow, Sunday 22nd, the focus remains on seeking justice and answers for her untimely death.
Meanwhile, the conversation around personal safety in social settings continues, with many hoping that Martha’s tragedy will serve as a wake-up call for greater vigilance and accountability.
